Three Guys, How to Pick

Three Guys, How to Pick

WHEN CHOOSING A PARTNER GO FOR THE BEST AVAILABLE. DON’T WAIT FOR THEM TO FIND YOU, AS THE LESS DESIRABLE OFTEN ARE THE MOST ACTIVE TO TRY AND GET AS MANY GIRLS AS THEY WANT. DON’T GO FOR THE FIRST ENTERTAINING ONE OR JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE RICH. You want the one with the healthiest and workable widgets with a consciousness that keeps them in line.

 

The health of your our own widgets will help you recognize the health of theirs. Don’t go for less. 

 

Slicks consciousness is not big and strong enough to change his widgets. So he is impulsive and out for his own gain. 

Rich Richard has a strong Consciousness but he has not improved his Upper Nature Widgets. It would be because he would have to share his wealth if he did. This leaves Cuz, Cuz is the cousin of some of her in-law relatives. He has a healthy set of Upper Nature Widgets, and his Lower Nature Widgets and Dragon are only there if really needed. They are not dominating. So she has made her choice to who to get to know better.

 

But not all is great with Cuz, he is in the gangs and she does not see a safe future with that. But she feels she can work with him. It is basically a belief system with him. She has to show him how his beliefs affect his widgets when he is in the gang environment. 

 

Cuz is Larry’s cousin. Cuz fights in Larry’s dad’s gangs but he has a heart for Larry’s plight, his dad takes him from his mother and threatens to take Larry’s sister also. He feels he is betraying Larry but at the same time feels he is fighting the establishment that lets Larry’s dad get away with it. He too feels he is under the thumb of the system and Larry’s dad. But Larry’s dad is very rich and more frightening than the system. His girlfriend wants him to quit the gangs so they can have a family and be safe. He feels she is right but he feels betrayed and helpless to do anything different.

 

Each widget affects the other widgets. When one widget dominates it can change the response of all the others. Fear tends to throw us into our survival mode. We can get defensive, be unreasonable or intimidated, and or otherwise lie, be self-centered, blame others and not take responsibility for our actions, and or become aggressive. 

 

Empathy allows us to see what the other person is feeling. Often we then realize they are only human and we are not diminutive nor helpless. By stoping and thinking, we can get a better perspective of what is happening and the possibilities. Cuz realizes he is no longer the victim of his Uncle but a formative opponent in the game of power.